Thursday, November 19, 2009

The Burden of Regret

A few days ago I met with a very successful businessman from Springfield.  We have had several business dealings in the past and although we aren't "pals", we share a mutual respect, and like-ability for one another.

After the purpose of our meeting was satisfied, we were shooting the bull when he shared that as a young man he had felt a call to the pastoral ministry, and for six years, had served as an ordained minister in a well known denomination.  He went on to say that due to an unfortunate series of events he left the pastorate and began his business, some 40 years ago.

Since I am also on a second career after serving as a minister for twenty one years, I was intrigued by his tale. Half of an hour had passed when I asked this burning question; "Do you miss pastoring?"  His reply saddened me, he said, "I felt I would have done more good had I stayed in the ministry".  I understood!  Sitting before me was a man of incredible wealth, and the respect of a city, yet burdened by regret.

As we ended our conversation I thanked him for his honesty, then shared that because of his generosity, and his conduct in business, he had most likely influenced more people for good than any minister could have done, and that I was one of them.  Thank You Sir!

 

1 comments:

ridesroadsandronman said...

A sad and telling truth. Certainly a sign of the times we live in today.

Ronman